When I first joined Instagram and Twitter, I had no idea what I was doing, posting pictures and videos facing the wrong way and not tagging people correctly. Now, I still don’t really know all the rules, but I’m getting better at playing the game.

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to appreciate the confidence I’ve gained. I don’t care as much about what others think, I know my limits and have set healthy boundaries so others know them, too. I attribute this to the wisdom we gain, which is usually a good thing. But every once in a while, something comes up that makes me shake my head and say, “Oh yeah. I’m old.”